Top 10 Signs A Female Coworker Likes You

by Geoff | Last Updated: May 16, 2020

After graduating from school, your workplace is undoubtedly the next best place for you to get to meet all sorts of new people. Work provides you with an excellent opportunity to forge new friendships and mentorships, and if fate calls for it, you may even get to meet your future spouse! After all, these people whom you call colleagues will be the everyday faces that you spend a great deal of your time with, even more so than your family members.

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Obvious Romantic Signs At The Work Place

As such, it’s no surprise for you to form some extent of attachment to your peers at work, where friendships can bud into something more. Before you get over-excited about an office romance, it is imperative that you’re well able to discern the difference between flirting and out-of-the-way acts of affection, with just caring and kind acts out of good mannerism. The following are 10 telltale signs a female coworker likes you and how it could lead to more.

She Obviously Likes Conversing With You Most

While making good conversations and getting along well with someone doesn’t necessarily indicate a romantic interest, if you notice that your colleague has been finding any opportunity she can to get to talk to you (not so subtly), then that could perhaps indicate something else. This is especially so if your conversation topics go beyond that of work!

She’s Not Shy To Catch Your Eye During Meetings

Serious discussions and meetings with your work team during working hours is certainly not a prime time for flirting, but if you catch your colleague smiling at you or making constant eye contact in times like these, that is a rather clear indicator that she’s got her eyes and mind fixated on you. Also, you may notice her smiling more than usual during your turn for presentation; if she likes you, hearing you speak is enough to make her smile.

She Surprises You With Coffee the Way You Like It

If your colleague has the hots for you, there is no doubt that she’s going to be extra sensitive towards your likes and dislikes: she’ll be sure to remember your words, and show so. A sure sign is where she shows up at your work desk in the early morning with a cup of coffee or tea made just the way you like it, or purchased from that particular coffee shop that you’ve mentioned that you love. She could be even more obvious in her actions if you notice that getting that coffee was a trip made out of her way, or if some desserts were given along with it!

She Displays Great Curiosity On Your Life Outside of Work

Other telltale signs a female coworker likes you would be her genuine desire to know more about your life outside the workplace. She will display this behavior by being sincerely interested in wanting to hear about what you have to talk about yourself, and prodding further to dig out more details about you. A woman who is patient in hearing you drone on about even the most uninteresting and insignificant moments of your daily life is definitely a girl worth keeping around.

She Is Ever Ready to Help You With Work

If you notice that your colleague is ever willing to set precious time aside specifically to help you, no matter how busy she can be with her own work duties, then that shows that she likely fancies you. For instance, she may show a keen willingness to help you with carrying any heavy items, or question repeatedly if you need her help on certain matters.

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Do be wary of those that could be looking just to get you in their bed though, and keep a good distance from such people if you suspect so.

She Is Quick to Protect You Should the Need Arise

If she is not afraid to step up to defend you and take your side in terms of conflict, then this could possibly imply that she has a certain fondness of you. In the scenario where others come for her because she defended you, but yet she still sticks her ground, then that’s one sweet act that shows the woman that she is. An interested person will also tend to believe your words easily more so than that of others.

She Remembers Things Special to You

While it can’t be helped that some people simply are bad at remembering their loved ones’ special dates, someone that is romantically interested should have a natural tendency to remember all the things about you. If she is going all out to pursue you, then she will be sure to put in the effort to surprise you on the special dates, especially on your birthday.

Her Schedule Increasingly Aligns with Yours

If she has the hots for you, then she will naturally want to do what she can just to spend a little more time together with you. She may do so by tweaking her schedule so as to match yours, so if you find that her shifts are the same as yours and that you’re getting to end work with her much more than before, this could be a good indication that she fancies you.

Her Body Language & Subtle Signs

Pay attention to her body language; this is what gives their intentions away. For instance, you may notice her seeming more nervous when alone with you as compared to when you’re in a group, or that her body seems to face you most of the time. If she picks up your lingo and has unconsciously incorporated it in the way she speaks, this could also show that she is attentive to your words and actions.

He Gives You Endearing Nicknames

If a girl is romantically interested in you, she’s likely to be extra affectionate when it comes to you, such as by teasing you with a nickname that only she calls. This is because she gets more of your attention that way!

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Tips & Indications Of Romantic Interest

It is definitely no easy task to figure out if your colleague is really interested in you, but the above-mentioned are some of the many telltale signs that you can consider as an indication of interest, of some sort. Don’t be too quick to get swayed by her acts of affection though, and make sure to not rush into anything: let her true intentions get revealed with time!